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I'm Not Even Sure God Likes Me,
Let Alone Loves Me!
It is understandable how you might feel
this way. Basically you see yourself as worthless in at least some
area of your life and because you see yourself as worthless, you think
God sees you as worthless, but let me assure you, God does love you!
"But why," you might ask?
Good question! You see the big difference
between people and God is that people often base their relationships
on things like beauty, performance and personal gain, while God bases
His love on the VALUE He created in us.
Look how the world creates its value
system. Who makes the most money in the United States?
Sports figures, celebrities and musicians who entertain and perform
for us. For most people, liking is about performance. If you
perform well I like and value you, if you don't, I don't.
Most men are not initially attracted to a
woman because of how smart she is. Attraction is usually
physical before it develops into something else. We might like another
person because of something we get in return: money, sex, or any other
The problem is we often try to make God
out to be like one of us. You might think, "I have nothing to
offer God, how could He possibly like me."
The good news (that is what the word
"gospel" means: good news) is that God doesn't love you because of your
beauty, your performance or what you can do for Him. He loves
you based on something the world doesn't even consider.
God Loves You Because You Are Valuable
As a Unique Human Being
Listen to what a songwriter in the Old
Testament said in a worship song to God ...
"You [God] made all
the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my
mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your
workmanship is marvelous – and how well I know it. You watched me as I
was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the
dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life
was recorded in your book." Psalms 139:13-16 NLT
God loves you because
He created you.
God Loves you because
He placed value in you.
God loves you because
he sees past your faults and sins to the eternal potential you were
God Loves you because
it is His eternal nature to love - He IS love personified.
You can see how God's love for you
does not depend on your performance or what can get out of you.
It depends on WHO you are. The Bible tells us "God loved
everyone in the entire world (including you) so much He sent His Son
Jesus to die in our place." (John 3:16).
To experience God's love you only
have to accept it. It is a person's continued refusal to believe
God's love is bigger then their sin that keeps the love of God shut
out. Open you heart. Believe that you have a God-given
eternal value that Jesus thought was worth sacrificing Himself for.
Here is one way to pray, you could use or
add your own words.
Jesus, I am sorry I have doubted you.
I realize that I have value, even if I am a sinner. I believe
your love is greater then my sin and I receive your love right now.
Thank you for dying for me. Please forgive me sins and let me
know you. I need to change and want to change, but I am
powerless without your love to change me. Jesus I believe you
died and rose from the dead. Please save me now and for eternity.
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Article by Steve Highlander, Pastor of the
Rockville Baptist Church, A Full Gospel Fellowship of Believers in
Rockville, MO. Steve has a Master's Degree in Pastoral Theology
and is currently working on His Doctorate. He has served as a
pastor, teacher and missionary in the body of Christ. He also
founded Door of Hope Prison Ministries, is a published author and is
active in Internet ministry through His Christian training web site
Steve and his wife Brooke, who holds a doctorate in Scriptural
Psychology and is a board certified Christian Therapist, have been
active in ministry to at-risk youth and world missions through the
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What Does the Bible
Say About That?
Quotations From the Bible
that relate to this subject.
God loves you because He created
God Loves you because He placed
value in you.
God loves you because he sees past
your faults and sins to the eternal potential you were created with.
God Loves you because it is His
eternal nature to love - He IS love personified.
"For God so loved the world
that He gave his only son that whoever believes in Him will not
perish, but have eternal life "
Romans 6:23 NKJ
"We know how much God loves us,
and we have put our trust in him. God is love, and all who live in
love live in God, and God lives in them."
"But God showed his great love
for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners."